How to Get Your Man to Love You More than Ever

As much as we hate to admit it, relationships can reach a stale point and our men just don't act like they used to when we first met. It's not that he doesn't love you as much as he used to. It's just that life gets in the way and he needs a wake up reminder to "get it together". And, as women, we have the power to rekindle that spark that sets his heart ablaze. So, get your man to love you more than ever ladies. Let's begin.


Instructions


Step 1

Stop criticizing Mr. Right into thinking he's Mr. Wrong. Ok, so maybe your man isn't prince charming all the time but you probably aren't Cinderella all the time either. So, teat him more like your king more often and he'll remember that you are his queen. See the good in him and make him want to spend time with you. After all, there was a time when you thought your man was better than sliced bread so treat him like he is still is and watch your relationship improve dramatically.

Step 2

Show your man more love and affection. Just like us, men love to be loved and touched just like we do ladies. Therefore, when you see him, give him a warm and passionate embrace and kiss. Don't just hand him the baby and say, "Whew ... glad you're home - take this kid please". Instead show him some affection and then pass him the screaming kid. This will prove that you really do love him very much.

Step 3

Make time for him. You have to make your relationship a priority (no matter what). This means that you absolutely and positively must go out on regular date nights. If you can't afford to go to expensive places, just go out and have a cheap cup of coffee. And, while you're there don't talk about the kids the whole time. Concentrate only on him and his needs and he will gladly return the favor.

Step 4

Make romance a priority. Yes, romance can get mundane at times so spice it up ladies. You don't have to put yourself in a pretzel all the time but you should be open to trying new things and new positions on occasion. For instance, if you normally spend Saturday mornings vacuuming the house, sleep in and give him a little morning massage and romance while the kids watch cartoons. You'll both be glad you did.

Step 5

Encourage your man to get out more. Just like you must get away ladies, you should encourage him to get out too. Not only will this invigorate him but it will make it easier for you to get away when its your turn. Although togetherness is a good thing, you also need to be apart at times so the heart can grow fonder.

Step 6

Listen attentively. Don't just say "umm hmmmm" without even listening to him. Look into his eyes, repeat what he says and let him know that you really do care about his opinion. In return, he will open up more and discuss important issues with you.

Step 7

Stop being mean and grumpy all the time. Yes, you shouldn't stifle your feelings all the time but there are times when you should take a "time out" before making mean outbursts. This will prevent you from saying things you later regret. It will also strengthen your relationship.

Step 8

Ask for forgiveness and stop holding grudges. People make mistakes. It is not the end of the world. If you mess up and say something harmful, apologize. Don't be afraid to admit you're wrong. Instead, tell him that you're sorry and move on. If he does the same, forgive him and move on. After all, no one is perfect and a good relationship means forgiving and letting bygones be bygones.

Step 9

In conclusion, a successful marriage is hard work but is worth it. If your relationship is a bit stale ladies, you've got some work to do. However, if you put in the work, you will rekindle the love and passion that is hiding underneath all that distance. And your Prince Charming will be waiting for you with your glass slipper.